How To Discover Who You Really Are (Through Human Design & Somatic Inquiry)

Many of us spend years trying to “get life right” — only to end up exhausted, burned out, or feeling like we’re missing something essential. If you’ve ever wondered “Who am I really, and why does life feel harder for me than it does for everyone else?” — you’re in the right place.

I use a unique blend of tools — Human Design, German New Medicine, Integrated Somatic Inquiry, and even Music — to help you reconnect with your true self and live from that place of authenticity.

What Does “Seidrkin” Mean?

The name Seidrkin comes from two words:

Seidr — the Norse women’s magic of divination, healing, and foretelling of futures.
Kin — the people of my fractal, my tribe.

Together, Seidrkin represents “weaving healing fortunes for my people.”
This is the essence of my work: bringing people back to who they are, and helping them live that truth.

My Journey as a 3/5 Emotional Projector

As a 3/5 Emotional Projector with a wide split definition, my life has been full of trial and error. I’ve tested, broken, rebuilt, and transmuted a LOT — the alchemy of turning lead into gold.

Before Human Design, I thought there was something horribly wrong with me. My health was falling apart (I even ended up in the emergency department just after discovering Human Design). My marriage had collapsed, and my job barely covered the bills. I was at rock bottom.

But rock bottom can be a blessing — because when you have nothing left to lose, you can finally take a leap of faith.

How Human Design Changed My Life

When I found Human Design, I realized I wasn’t broken. I just hadn’t been living according to my design.

That doesn’t mean Human Design is a religion or something to worship. It’s not “the way, the truth, and the light.” But what it does give us is awareness. Awareness that puts choice and potential back into our hands.

✨Human Design is magic for self-discovery

Human Design became a tool that helped me understand my unique energy and gave me permission to stop hurting myself with my best intentions.

If you don’t know where to start, looking up your free Human Design chart can be a great place to begin. You can generate your free chart here at Jovian Archive.

The Projector Path: Seeing Others, Learning to See Myself

As a Projector in Human Design, I’m designed to see deeply into others — often with incredible clarity. Yet at the same time, I was a mess in my own life. The projector aura is not designed to focus in on ourselves, we struggle to see our own depths while we so easily see into those around us.

This is the paradox of being a Projector. But it’s also the gift. Because once we learn to understand our mechanics, trust ourselves, and honor our energy, we stop forcing life — and begin to experience the signature of success.

That’s what happened for me. I had to learn to:

Say no (even when it cost me relationships or opportunities).
Let things burn away that weren’t truly mine.
Trust that my alignment was enough to support me.

It was painful — but it was also a deep return to my core.

From Rock Bottom to Starting My Business

As I began living in alignment, everything shifted.

I went from not having the confidence to apply for a checkout job… to starting my own business. I began to love myself — not just the shiny parts, but the warts of not-self too.

Authenticity became magnetic. Success came not from hustling but from being recognized for who I truly was.

✨ My authentic expression took the awareness of Human Design to truly come online

Integrated Somatic Inquiry: Healing Through the Body

Alongside Human Design, one of my favorite tools is Integrated Somatic Inquiry (ISI).

ISI is where belief meets the physical body. We use our triggers as opportunities to realign with truth — shifting not just our thoughts, but our entire lived experience.
Instead of symptom managing every negative thought we go to the root of the belief so that you can just enjoy being you instead of overthinking every thought pattern you have.

I see ISI as a kind of matrix hack — a way to change our inner coding so we can move from suffering to ease. And I’ve watched it transform the lives of clients again and again.

✨ somatic inquiry is such incredible magic for healing the root cause.

Join Me On The Journey

I spend a lot of time connecting with my community on Instagram (@seidrkin.humandesign), and I share even more wisdom on my podcast (available on Spotify and YouTube).

If you’d like to go deeper:

You can also join my mailing list for monthly updates, podcast drops, and behind-the-scenes musings. I don’t spam (Projector energy doesn’t allow for that 😉).

Final Words

If you’re standing where I once stood — overwhelmed, disconnected, or doubting yourself — know this: you’re not broken.

The tools I share aren’t here to fix you, but to help you remember who you really are. Because when you return to your true self, you discover that you already have everything you need to live, love, and thrive.

✨ With love from my 37-40.

Seidrkin

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